The sensual massage industry runs on trust and mutual respect. Providers who feel respected do better work and are more likely to accommodate special requests, remember your preferences, and prioritise your bookings. Here's how to be a great client.
Before the Session
- Be upfront about what you want: Describe your preferences clearly when booking. You don't need to be explicit — "I'm looking for a slow, full-body relaxation session" is enough to help a provider prepare.
- Confirm attendance: If you've made a booking, follow through. No-shows waste providers' time and money. If something comes up, send a message as early as possible.
- Arrive on time: Providers often have back-to-back bookings. Arriving 15 minutes late for a 60-minute session doesn't extend your session — it just shortens it.
Personal Hygiene
This is perhaps the most important practical point. Shower before you arrive — or shortly before a provider arrives for outcall. Clean teeth, no strong cologne (it interferes with massage oils), trimmed nails. Providers notice, and they appreciate it more than almost anything else.
During the Session
- Communicate clearly: If you want more pressure, less pressure, or the provider to focus on a particular area, say so. Good providers welcome feedback.
- Respect stated boundaries: If a provider tells you at the outset what the session includes and doesn't include, take that at face value. Pushing past stated boundaries is disrespectful and will end sessions early.
- Stay calm and relaxed: You'll get far more from the session if you can fully surrender to it rather than being tense or preoccupied.
Payment
Pay the agreed amount in cash, at the start of the session. Don't try to negotiate down at the door — the rate was agreed when you booked. Providers track difficult clients and share information; a reputation for haggling will make future bookings harder to secure.
After the Session
If you had a great experience, say so. A genuine, warm thank-you is appreciated. If you'd like to book again, providers are happy to hear it directly. Repeat clients who are respectful and straightforward are the backbone of every successful provider's client list.