For clients looking to book
- Ask for a recent photo or a quick video call before meeting, to confirm identity.
- Meet first in an accessible location if you’re unsure.
- Agree on time, location, and rate in advance — avoid sending payment ahead of a first meeting.
- Let someone you trust know your plans.
- Trust your instincts, and leave if anything feels wrong.
For providers
- Set your own boundaries clearly before any booking.
- Consider a simple screening step for new contacts.
- Keep your profile accurate — service type, location, and availability.
- Report abusive, deceptive, or threatening behavior through Contact.
Important
Xcortly is a directory, not an agency — we don’t verify identities, supervise meetings, or guarantee any outcome. These are general safety practices, not a substitute for your own judgment.
See also our FAQ and terminology glossary.