"Discreet" shows up in almost every profile, used so broadly it's stopped communicating much of anything. Real discretion is specific — about what stays private and what needs to be clear.
Say What "Discreet" Actually Means for You
Identity, photos, and how you're contacted are reasonable things to keep private. Rates, availability, and what you offer aren't — those need to be clear for a first message to turn into a booking at all.
Keep Booking Details on One Private Channel
Splitting arrangements across public comments, DMs, and texts makes discretion harder to maintain, not easier. Pick one private channel for the actual logistics and be consistent about it.
Confidentiality Goes Both Ways
Clients are trusting you with their privacy too. Stating your own confidentiality policy plainly — what you do and don't share, how you handle client information — sets the same expectation on both sides.
Don't Let "Discreet" Replace Clarity
A profile that's vague about everything reads as evasive, not professional — discretion should apply to your personal privacy, not to basic logistics a client needs to decide whether to book.
Frequently Asked Questions
Does being "discreet" mean I shouldn't state my rates clearly?
No — rates and logistics should stay clear. Discretion is about protecting your personal privacy, not withholding the information a booking actually depends on.
What's the best way to keep booking details private?
Move the conversation to a single private channel as soon as it turns into real logistics, and use it consistently rather than fielding details across whichever channel someone happens to message on.